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Alcoholism

ALCOHOLISM
(From the book “Love Your Illness” by dr. Sinelnikov V.V.)

Is alcoholism curable?
Yes, it is!
I’m absolutely sure of this opinion. I have been convinced of it during many years of medical practice. I have managed to discover the cause of this terrible illness…
I ascertained, that all people, who suffered from alcoholism, had special program of behavior, hidden in their subconscious. It was inherited or formed by big emotional shocks. That is why it is so important for recovery to find out the program, neutralize it and create new programs of healthy and sober behavior. In other words, it is necessary to get into the new good habit instead the addiction.
The present-day methods of treating alcoholism (ampules, injections, pills, tea, etc) depress the illness, but do not cure. They give a temporary effect and hide the illness even more in the subconscious.
Moreover, sometimes this influence on psyche by force makes other problems, such as irritation, aggression, despondency, depression, etc. The medicines postpone the solution of the problem, but do not eliminate the real causes of the illness. As the real causes are in the subconscious.

Complete recovery from alcoholism is only possible if an ill person is ready to take the full responsibility for his illness and his healing. Any man has all the necessary inner resources for recovery as a part of his nature!
But, first of all, he must have the irresistible desire to get out of the disease; start the new healthy life. He must firmly believe in himself.

Alcoholism is an illness of personality; it is like a “medicine” for an ill soul. Initially, a man’s soul becomes ill, and then he feels a sickly need for alcohol. Therefore, It is necessary to heal the man’s soul at first and the need will disappear itself!
For example, if a man has an ill heart, he needs nitroglycerine to remove the spasm of vessels. The medicine does not treat or eliminate the cause of the illness. But the man would die without it. If the man recover, he does not need nitroglycerine any more.
Alcoholics are in the similar situation. Their souls are ill with fears, hate, jealousy, offence, despair, etc. Alcohol helps to neutralize this destructive emotions for a time.
But alcohol does not treat an ill soul. It just permanently lighten mental and physical suffering of the man. At the same time alcohol is very bad for health. Toxic products of decomposition accumulate in the internal organs, especially in liver and brain, damaging them.
So alcohol is a poison, but it permanently lighten the suffering of an ill person. Some people are still ready to be slaves of alcohol, give it their will and energy for the possibility to feel tranquil and confident for a short time. That is too high price for the illusion of happiness!
Every man has the keys to recovery! Each of us has the gift for developing and improving!
What should an ill man do to become healthy?

If you have the alcohol addiction, stop to blame yourself! The second step is asking yourself about positive purposes of drinking! Why do you drink? What are the benefits of drinking for you?

Yes, I said “benefits“. Here are some examples to explain my thought.
Alcohol is a narcotic, which allows people to feel certain emotions. In other words, every man drinks to change his emotional state.
Some people feel relaxed and free after drinking. Others use it in their business as a ritual, or to make easier relations with friends, etc.

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Permalink Reply by Anastasia on December 26, 2009 at 3:52am

One woman liked to drink at parties. She felt relaxed and free after it, laughed and joked a lot. This condition made her the centre of attention. But when she came home after the parties, she felt terrible. She asked me to help her. We found out that the cause of the problem was the lack of love and kindness in her life. When she learnt how to get and express these important feelings, the problem with alcohol disappeared itself.

One of my patients drunk for better relations with intimate people. He was very shy and alcohol helped him to feel closer to his wife and kids, He wanted to tell tender words, do something good and kind for them in this state. He replaced his luck of love and disability to express his feelings by alcohol for a short time. Medical treatment had just a permanent effect. We changed his thoughts about himself as a man, about his wife and kids; eliminated his inferiority complex and feeling of guilty and it eliminated his addiction.

Sometimes, alcohol is used for physical relaxation and rest.
Many people drinks to remove mental stress, emotional tension, to get away from reality and problems. But it is a self-deception, because it is impossible to solve problems by this way. And the drinking person just get new problems in addiction: with health, family, work, etc. it is impossible to run away from your problems, from yourself, the reality. Especially as we create our reality. It means, you must change it, instead of leaving. And you must start with yourself.

Alcohol, like narcotics, allows people to feel pleasure, joy, amusement, relaxation, etc. But it is deception, illusion. A joy under the influence of alcohol is a joy under the anesthetic…
Alcohol does not teach how to solve important problems of life, but brings another. And everything fells into place.
Of cause, there is nothing bad in using alcohol to achieve certain emotional conditions. But it becomes addiction and illness if drinking is the only one way to feel these emotions.

Now is the time to make the first step to healing. Write down your positive purposes of drinking:________________________________________________________ (1)

The next step is creating new ways to achieve these conditions. They must be more effective and safe then drinking alcohol. Start to find out new positive habits! It means, new thoughts, feelings, emotions, positive attitude to yourself and people, the world. (2)

Here is the list of negative emotions, which can result in alcohol addiction:
-- different fears;
-- feeling of guilty and striving for punishment for yourself;
-- regret for the pest;
-- boredom;
-- feeling of loneliness;
-- sense of grievance, aggression, malice, hate;
-- jealousy;
-- dissatisfaction of yourself, life and the world;
-- inferiority complex, lacking self-confidence;

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(1) It might be slightly difficult, if you have never done something like this before. But it’s very easy to learn. You should take a sheet of paper and a pen, relax and concentrate on your problem. Write down everything that came into your mind. Be honest with yourself. Even if the thoughts seems to you strange or terrible, write them down! After some time you will find your reasons. --------- footnote from translator.

(2) If the first step (finding out positive purposes) is relatively simple and did not take a lot of time, the next one is really tough to realize. To make it easier there are special methods. Some of them you will find in my group here:
http://www.davidhasselhoff.com/group/yourlife_waysofrecovery
For the beginners I advise BSFF and/or EFT. The first one works better with emotions and subconscious programs, the second is better for neutralizing different symptoms of illnesses. Dr. V.V. Sinelnikov invented method of reprogramming subconscious. I will write about it a bit later. As well as I will describe other methods. If you use several methods, you get better result. --------- footnote from translator.

Permalink Reply by Anastasia on December 26, 2009 at 3:57am

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